To their neighbours, they were a typical middle-class family: mum, dad
and their three polite, well turned-out children. Home was a four-bedroom
detached house with stunning views of the Gloucestershire countryside, and the
family drove a shiny new car. Though there was no obvious source of household
income (dad had apparently lost his job in the recession), that didn’t stop
them from going on expensive holidays and enjoying frequent weekends away.
Lies: Emma La Garde shaved her son's head and eyebrows to pretend he had cancer in a sick benefit fraud
The only fly in the ointment was the precarious health of the family’s
eldest son. Though to the casual observer the boy seemed to be bouncing with energy,
it became painfully obvious that something was badly wrong when he lost his
hair and eyebrows. Generally, the family tended to shy away from social
contact, but now his mother — uncharacteristically open for once — tearfully
informed neighbours that the boy had cancer.
And when a wheelchair was spotted being hauled into the house, it was
clear that he had taken a turn for the worse. Or was it? In reality, the only
sick person in that household was the poor child’s mother. A perfectly healthy
schoolboy, he was made to believe that he was seriously ill so he could play
his part in a twisted charade convincingly — a scam set up in order that his
mother could fraudulently claim benefits. Only now can the full extent of the
scam be laid bare, with the woman in question, 37-year-old Emma La Garde,
finally locked up for banking more than £85,000 by abusing her adoring son.
Stolen childhood: Emma La Garde banned her son from playing with friends in the playground or taking part in any physical activities at school (file picture)
Jailing La Garde for three years and nine months this week, Judge Jamie
Tabor QC described her conduct as ‘quite beyond the pale’. Indeed, such was his
revulsion at her behaviour — which he said had inflicted ‘undoubted long-term
psychological harm [on her son] from which he may never recover’ — he took a
personal interest in ensuring the press could publish as many details of the
case as possible, without jeopardising her children’s anonymity. The facts
about her are set out here, using, as the judge ordered, a false name. Her
offences, however, are all too real.
Hometown: The mother, who forged doctors' notes and made it look like the boy was taking medication for cancer, is from Stroud, Gloucestershire (file picture)
This is a woman who stole her son’s childhood, forcing him to act out
the role of invalid when all he wanted to do was play on his trampoline. She
shaved his hair and eyebrows, confined him to a wheelchair he did not need, and
banned him from playing with friends in the playground or taking part in any
physical activities at school because of his ‘condition’. When he turned up at
school in a bandana – which his mother pleaded with teachers not to remove ‘to
save his embarrassment’ — fellow pupils viciously bullied him. Yet for all the
torment he endured, and the massive pressure of maintaining such an enormous
lie, the boy, who is now ten years old, went along with his mother’s wishes.
Perks: La Garde used the benefit she falsely claimed to go on expensive holidays abroad. On one occasion she took her children to a location in Florida. South Beach in Miami is pictured
His reward? He is now languishing in care, effectively abandoned by a
mother who has indicated she wants nothing more to do with him. To add insult
to injury, it is understood that she has maintained contact with his younger
siblings, who are also in care, visiting them three times a week in the run-up
to her trial in the hope that they’ll be returned to her when she is released
from prison. The depressing tale carries echoes of another infamously
exploitative mother, Karen Matthews, who — in at attempt to make money — in
2008 tricked the nation into believing that her daughter Shannon had been
abducted.
But while some argued that Karen Matthews may have been driven to such a
terrible act by her impoverished and dysfunctional life on a council estate,
Emma La Garde has no such excuse. For her affluent lifestyle could not be
further removed from the depressing existence of the Matthews clan. Witness La
Garde’s appearances at Gloucester Crown Court. Granted, she cut a forlorn
figure, clutching a bag of prescription medication (of which she went on to
take an overdose, after being convicted of child cruelty, eight counts of fraud
and forging a doctor’s letter).
Guilty: Judge Jamie Tabor QC described the mother's conduct as 'quite beyond the pale' at Gloucester Crown Court (pictured). He sentenced her to three years and nine months in prison
The pills, however, were carried in a pretty floral Cath Kidston bag,
while the clothes she wore to court were from middle-class favourites Boden and
The White Company. Her comfortable lifestyle was hardly surprising given that
investigators believe the true scale of her financial deceit was well in excess
of £100,000, but the official figure was reduced to £85,898 on a legal
technicality. One can only wonder at the chutzpah of a woman who has never held
down a job, and continued to claim child benefit even after her children were
put in the custody of their father.
The boy's life changed irrevocably in 2008 when his mother took him to visit the GP who said there was nothing to worry about (file picture)
The court heard that when he confronted her about it, she refused to
give up the money, describing it as ‘my income’. Such selfish, grasping
behaviour has underpinned La Garde’s life. Her first marriage resulted in two
children, but ended messily and resulted in La Garde becoming estranged from
the children, whom she has not seen for many years. Even after meeting the man
she would go on to marry and have three more children with, including the boy
forced to feign cancer, she continued her feud with the ex-husband.
During her trial, counsel for the defence attempted to paint La Garde as
a victim in a series of controlling relationships. Her parents, who are
standing by her, backed up this version of events and handed a letter to the
court pleading mitigating circumstances because of her difficult past. The
judge disagreed. Not least, one imagines, because of medical reports stating
that while La Garde was not mentally ill, she suffers from a personality
disorder.
Medical sources said it had proved almost impossible to treat her
successfully because she was, as the judge put it, a ‘congenital liar’ who had
‘all but lost the ability to tell the truth’. The court heard that she has
committed similar frauds in the past, over long periods of time. One particular
deceit, previously unreported, came about because of the ongoing feud with her
ex-husband. Sources close to the investigation revealed that La Garde’s
subsequent partner once arrived home to find her ‘black and blue’ and claiming
that she had been assaulted by her ex-husband.
When the ‘assault’ was investigated, it emerged that the man in question
had moved thousands of miles away to a foreign country. Her injuries, it
transpired, were self-inflicted. Of course, of all the victims of her lies,
none has suffered as much as her innocent son — a boy whose life changed
irrevocably in 2008, when, aged six, he began complaining of pains in his legs.
A trip to the family GP revealed nothing more sinister than enlarged tonsils.
Still, blood tests were carried out, then the GP wrote to La Garde confirming
that there was nothing to worry about.
For reasons known only to herself, it was at this point that she began
her scam. Using the surgery’s letterhead, she created a forged document stating
that her son had ALPS — autoimmune lympho-proliferative syndrome — causing an
enlarged spleen. She sent it to the boy’s school and to the Department of Work
and Pensions to claim Disability Living Allowance. The following year she upped
the ante, sending her son to school in a wheelchair donated by the Red Cross
and telling his teachers that he couldn’t do physical education lessons or run
around. As far as La Garde was concerned, this was a masterstroke. Already
receiving large sums of money from the state, she secured a brand new Vauxhall
Zafira via the Motability scheme and took her children on holiday to Disney
World in Florida.
Once there, she exploited the fact that her son was in a wheelchair to
jump the queues. Back at home, however, her husband was becoming suspicious,
noting that the boy couldn’t wait to get out of the wheelchair and play on his
trampoline. Despite this, La Garde stepped up her plan, sending another forged
doctor’s letter to the school claiming her son had lymphoma, a type of cancer. It
was around this time that the couple separated — a development, which would
finally cause her web of deceit to unravel.
In February 2010, La Garde told teachers that the medication her son was
taking would make his hair fall out. Days later, he attended school wearing a
bandana and with his eyebrows shaved. Despite the fact that his shaved hairline
was obvious, the school authorities were reluctant to act, and it was only when
the boy’s father made a rare visit to the school that the lies were exposed. Shown
the medical letters by a teacher, he was immediately sceptical and took them to
the GP, who confirmed that the boy was not suffering from cancer or any other
major condition.
Social services were contacted, and in May 2010 La Garde was finally
arrested. Even then, La Garde continued to lie, falsely claiming benefits until
June last year by telling the authorities that her children were living with
her, when they had in fact been taken into care. It transpired she was even
claiming money for the boy’s younger sister, who she said also suffered from
ALPS. When interviewed by police, she said she had shaved her son’s head after
giving him a bad haircut. In an act of breathtaking stubbornness, she even went
so far as to deny ever saying that her son had cancer.
Her denials were to no avail. Naturally, questions arise about the role
of the father in the scam, although investigators do not believe he was party
to the fraud. In fact, he was the catalyst for La Garde being exposed and was a
key prosecution witness. When La Garde was arrested in 2010, the three children
were handed into the custody of their father. Sadly, this arrangement did not
work out and they are now in care, much to the regret of their grandparents. This
week the children’s grandfather, speaking from his home on a private estate,
declined to discuss the case in detail but said: ‘What I can say is that the
family will certainly derive closure from the outcome of this case. ‘The
outcome justifies removal of the children from their mother’s care and the
family applaud custodial sentencing since the offences, including child
cruelty, seem only to have been motivated by greed.’
He said the family’s primary concern was to ensure the children lead as
normal a life as possible, though how that will be achieved remains to be seen.
For his part, her traumatised son now describes her as ‘evil’. ‘I don’t like
her,’ is his brutally direct assessment. ‘She is evil. I don’t think she has a
normal brain. I didn’t really understand what was happening. I don’t miss her
any more. I did wonder why she picked on me. I have spoken with Dad about it
loads, and it must have been because of my age.’ Though the boy is said to be
intelligent and well-mannered, social workers remain concerned that he will be
left with issues of abandonment and unfounded concerns about his own health and
wellbeing, caused by being forced to act out the role of invalid for so long.
It all adds up to a dismal tale of child exploitation: a serial bad
mother who has let down five children in turn. But can we be sure it is over?
For all her failings, La Garde will in all likelihood be released from prison
in less than two years, back into the arms of her latest boyfriend, who is
standing by her. By then La Garde will be barely 38 — easily still young enough
to have more children, should she desire. It is a terrifying prospect.
Source: Daily Mail UK
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