Even though no two kids are
alike, there are some things that are fairly predictable with most kids. For
example, most girls don’t like squirmy things like worms whereas most boys are
fascinated with creepy crawly critters. It’s a stereotype, but it also happens
to be pretty accurate. Some kids tend to be sensitive to certain things and
other kids, maybe not so much. Here are 10 things that most kids are normally very
sensitive to.
- Yelling in
a negative way – Unless a child is brought up in a home where
yelling is the norm, young kids have a tendency to be sensitive to this
kind of yelling; particularly if it is harsh and directed at them.
- Mean
expressions – It’s interesting to note that babies will
often cry if someone looks at them in a mean way. Kids in general react to
negative facial expressions.
- Another
child in need – When kids see another child who needs help,
they will often try to help the other child. Toddlers will try to comfort
babies who are crying, and older kids will often try to assist a toddler
who is having difficulty with something. Kids can be selfish and bossy,
but they can also be compassionate toward one another.
- Their
mother’s moods – Most moms will agree that their kids will
react to their moods with predictability. When Mom needs alone time,
that’s when the kids will cling to her even more. When she’s sad, they
will get quiet and try to cheer her up. When she’s happy, they are happy
too. And when she’s tired, they will drive her bonkers!
- Harsh
words – Kids can be very sensitive to harsh words, especially when they
come from their parents. Kids like to please adults and want to know that
they are loved and accepted. Harsh words can leave them feeling rejected
and worthless.
- Kind words – Just as
kids can be sensitive to harsh words, kind words can have the opposite
effect. A few kind words spoken to a kid can make all the difference in
the world. Many kids don’t get to hear kind things spoken to them on a
regular basis, so when they do hear them, oftentimes, they will treasure
those words like precious gems.
- Clothing
tags – Fortunately, many companies have stopped putting tags on
clothing and imprint the information directly on garments instead. Many
kids can’t tolerate the tags rubbing against their necks and have to have
the tags cut out prior to wearing.
- Over
stimulation – Most kids can handle only so much stimulation.
When there is too much going on – when all the senses are assaulted at
once – many kids will go into sensory overload. Then they will act out,
cry, and get cranky or hyper.
- Loose
teeth – When kids begin to lose their baby teeth, they can get sensitive
about the prospect of the tooth coming out. Some kids get worried about
the blood they will lose, others worry about whether or not it will hurt
and how much; some even worry about needing to wear false teeth! Assuring
the child that losing teeth is part of growing up might help to quell some
of their fears.
- Food
preferences – Food can be a very touchy subject for some
youngsters. They can get very particular and very vocal about their likes
and dislikes, and even joking around with them about it can get a rise out
of them. As kids grow, their taste buds mature, so rest assured that their
tastes will change as time goes on.
Kids can get sensitive about so
many things that sometimes parents are in a quandary as to what to do. Just be
patient and try to help your child deal with their sensitivities. Realizing
that certain sensitivities are perfectly normal and will be resolved as your
kid gets older can give you some peace of mind.
Source: Aupair
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