Getting Your Child Ready for a New Sibling

We have all heard about sibling rivalry. While it is most noticeable when children are growing, it starts even from the entrance of a new baby into the family. The following tips are to help prepare your child for an incoming sibling. It will at least reduce the initial ‘psychological shock’ of having someone else become the focus of attention in the family

·         Kids are curious beings, and will want to know what is happening with your big tummy. Tell him in an understandable manner about the expected arrival of a sibling

·         Let him know the advantages of having a sibling; a playmate and friend, and his role as a big brother

·         Let him understand that he is going to have a younger one to care for and carry just as he was carried earlier in his life. You may enhance this by showing him pictures of his early days and how he was carried and pampered by all. If there are pictures that show where he was carried by kids a little older, show him those especially

·         Let your child get involved in making most of the preparations for the arrival of the sibling; buying of baby clothes, toys, preparing the nursery, etc

·         Find time to also attend to his emotional and psychological needs so he does not feel sidelined because of the sibling

·         Let him play a helping role in caring for the new baby by doing some simple chores like getting baby diapers, wipes and baby clothes

·         When buying gifts for the new baby, be sure to include some gifts for the older child so he will not feel left out. If possible, tell close family and friends to include gifts for the older child on their first visit

·         Above all let him know that he is still loved